4. The Chic That Hates Her Job
Shida yake ni?: She’ll sl3’3p with some influential guy to get a promotion or better job. Or maybe she’ll h00’k up with you in order to use you to get ahead. There are plenty of chics out there who don’t take their careers seriously, because they don’t want to work and are just looking for someone to support them. Decide if she’s on the hunt for the wrong reasons—like your bank account—by asking about her career.
If she seems to be passionate about it, or expresses a drive to move on from the job she currently hates, that’s a good sign. But if she jumps around jobs a lot or says she just doesn’t like to work, she might be digging for gold. And while a lot of guys enjoy doting on women, girls who expect to be lavished will typically be ungrateful of your generosity.
5. The Chic Who Blames Everyone Else
Shida yake ni?: She’s irresponsible as f*’ck. If every single story she tells is about something bad that happened—but it totally wasn’t her fault at all—beware: She’s incapable of taking personal responsibility, so nothing will ever be her fault and she’ll never feel the need to change her problematic behaviors,.
Unfortunately, a lot of people complain because they don’t know what else to talk about. But if every story on a first date involves someone else effing up, take it as a cue to cut her loose.
2. The Chic P0’unding Shots at the Back of the Bar
Shida yake ni? Guys are attracted to chics partying hard because they look like a good time.
But proceed with caution: She’s blowing off steam for a reason, like a breakup or bad manners. She’s probably hooked up with hundreds of fellas. Bang her with a c0’nd0m but never date her.
Shida yake ni? : Chics on the rebound are incredibly attractive, because they’re full of passion and typically a little wild, but they’ll rip your heart out. The most likely scenario is that she will ch3at on you with her ex. Or she’ll leave you to get back with him. A girl who just had her heart broken is trying to avoid the pain however she can, and may have abandonment anxiety: She’s uncomfortable being alone, and will reach out to you to feel better,.That means she’ll happily jump head-first into a new relationship with adoration and allure, which makes it easy for you to get attached—and hurt. Plus, without sorting through things on her own first, she may project some of the problems from her last relationship onto you, which is impossible to reason with,.